It used to be always thought of that the vibrator was just a masturbation toy for the woman and that bringing it out during intercourse would freak the guy out by him thinking that there was another ‘hotdog’ in the room. Well in general that no longer happens. Men are just as happy to have toys in the room!! Well the majority anyway…
Here are some slightly out of the ordinary tips on how to use sex toys. This post has tips on how to use a vibrator..
1. Run It All Over Him.
Get him to lie down on the bed, push the ‘on’ button and massage it over him! Begin just above his knees, slowly move it up his thighs, and circle it around near his ‘package’. Help him relax and he’ll soon be at ease with the feeling.
2. Start Slow.
Use the tip of the vibrator to circle around your nipples, get him to take over and have him suck a nipple while the other is being tickled with the vibrator. Then swap and you do the same to him. Some men don’t like there nipples being touched so be sure to communicate and check out his likes and dislikes before jumping right in. This is an amazing feeling. If he is a bit hesitant about introducing a toy to proceedings, start on him and then he can reciprocate =)
3. Full Speed.
Move the vibrator up and down one side of his penis and then the other. This will arouse and tease him and I guarantee this will make him hard.
As you take his penis in and out get him to hold the side of your vibrator against your cheek. This is an amazing feeling.
5. Low Speed.
Wrap it in your knickers to minimize the sensation. While you caress his shaft hold the vibrator against his balls. A man’s testicles typically can’t take much stimulation so make sure it is on a low setting initially – he can always ask for more later.
6. His Tongue.
While he is licking your clitoris have him put the vibrator inside you angled slightly toward your belly button so it will hit your G-spot. These two combined will certainly make for a wickedly intense orgasm.
7. Total Control.
Give him total control of the toy, and you. Lie on your front or back and let him tie you up, blindfold you and let him use it how he wants.
8. His Perineum.
The perineum is the small patch of skin rich in nerve endings that is located between his balls and anus; it’s really sensitive. Pick up a small, egg-shaped model vibrator – a vibrating egg would be the way to go – and get it out while you are giving him a blow job. Hold it gently against that area and feel him writhe in pleasure.
If he is hesitant about adding a vibrator/sex toy into the mix, then take it slowly. Once again, a vibrating egg might be the way to go as he can have control of it. Give him the remote. Slowly start trying and introducing new things and before you know it your toy box will be full of an array of sex toys!